Dating a guy with emotional baggage
Some people feel that it's not worth a try unless it's 100% certain it will work out.But, you can never really be that sure of things, and that unknown keeps some people from committing.Don't try and get us to do acid again just because you want to see if we can recreate the time we went to Bonnaroo 10 years ago.4. "Older" doesn't necessarily mean we're going to stop watching cartoons or laughing at fart jokes. Yeah, we might also have emotional baggage, but the more time we've had to date around, the more we know what we like and (hopefully) how to avoid making the same mistakes we made previously.8. Do you need help setting up automatic bill pay or your 401(k)? Most of the reasons a guy won't commit have to do with the guy.But he may see you as a fun person to date, but never thought of you as someone he'd commit to in the end.
Maybe just one shot of whiskey instead of seven of vodka. We know what we want out of life, and we're probably not going to change it.
At the root of it, the same sense of insecurity that made the guy obsessed with finding out if you like him is now scaring him into thinking that you’re going to “take his freedom away.” Generally speaking, most guys have a fear of being “trapped” in a relationship, but in this particular scenario you’re dealing with a guy who’s actions are especially dictated by avoiding unpleasant situations as a primary motivator.
If you start getting on his case (“Why didn’t you call? ”, etc.) he will feel trapped and suffocated and start pulling away.
We've picked up a lot of habits (some bad and some good), but you're not about to change them.
Well at this point, the guy realizes that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.